Music is your own experience, your thoughts, your wisdom. If you don’t live it, it won’t come out of your horn.
This is why I insist that my students "have a life" separate from their horns. You can't play a song about getting your heart broken if you've never had a broken heart. You can't convey being scared or giddy if you've never experienced those things yourself.
If what's coming out of your bell is not your experience, your thoughts, and your wisdom, chances are you won't be compensated too much for it.